Friday, 18 September 2009

The start was good..

The week started great. On Monday I went with eldest son and DIL to Scarborough for the day with their TARA. (Tenants and Residents Association). Thoroughly enjoyed myself....haven't been to the coast for nearly 20 years....where do the years go?!!
I arrived home to be greeted by my youngest telling me that David had phoned and would I call back. David....which David? My brother, BIL, grandson, other people named David that I know? It turned out to be my brother-in-law and I knew as soon as I saw the number that something was wrong. My sister had died. She went into hospital with a kidney infection and died of pneumonia. I am still a little dazed with the news. She hasn't had good health for a number of years (severe rheumatoid arthritis and osteoporosis) but no one expected this. She was 57 years old...16 months older than me. I suppose that it is a release for her knowing the pain she was in....but it doesn't make it any the moment I'm finding it hard to come to terms with it.


Myzdamena's World said...

What devastating news... *hugs* ... I hope you have some good friends nearby to talk to when you need to xxxx

PeeJay said...

I'm so sorry to hear your news Sue. Such a shock for you all. As you say, it is a release for her but that doesn't really make the shock of losing her so suddenly any easier for you. Sending you hugs xx